Accept completely

sex“I'm divorced. I am independently raising my eight-year-old son. The former spouse belonged to irresponsible people, he was often brutal, he disregarded the needs of the child. I have been in a relationship with a man for some time, who is the complete opposite of my husband. His go uwielbia, welcomes his visits. After all, it is difficult for me to decide to remarry. With so many advantages from my partner, his little things irritate me (e.g.. way of eating, holding a glass, sweating hands, some reactions). I do not know, if I am right, delaying the decision to marry? I know, that the little son would be happy about it and would accept his stepfather.”

Another marital union concluded in a very prudent manner, carefully thought out, devoid of too strong emotions, he may turn out to be very happy. However, "little things”, which irritate you a lot now, suggest, unfortunately, lack of full acceptance for the partner, despite admiration for its many virtues. One thing, though, as the Lady herself could see, does not rule out the second. The positive attitude of the current partner towards your son is of course very important, just as the child's reactions are important, who spontaneously reciprocate. However, the new man in your life is to be your husband and partner, and you must accept him in these roles. This is a necessary condition for the success of the new, legalized relationship. If that doesn't happen, then none of the three will benefit from it. You still need some time to think and take an important one, responsible decision.