Diary secrets

master“I read from the diary of my 16-year-old daughter (I know, I shouldn't be doing this), that in a disco she made bold caresses with a boy a year younger.
The intercourse did not take place, because she was afraid. How can I protect her?”

Reading daughters' diaries, looks at an epidemic among mothers. I am against these practices, because I treat the sense of privacy as an important rule at home. Are you learning about your daughter's secrets, you will protect her from the first sexual contacts? The ban on going to the disco does not solve anything. Just tell your daughter, that sixteen is the age. when sexual experience is gained, but before taking the next step – sexual initiation – worth a stop. And tell me honestly, why do you think so and what is your fear. Kisses, caress – are compatible with the needs of adolescence and it is not worth forbidding your daughter. Sometimes it's a good idea to trust your child, instead of controlling them.