Husband, be restrained!

pan-bed“I would like to use natural contraception, but my husband doesn't agree to it. He says, that it cannot be so limited. What should I do?”

Talking about the necessity to "limit yourself" – the husband is right. Natural methods actually require a great deal of restraint in certain, hypothetical periods of female fertility. After all, you cannot have sexual intercourse during this time. It is also known, that these methods are not among the surest methods of contraception. However, the last word on these matters always belongs to the woman. It is she who should decide on the method of contraception, and the man has no right to force her to do anything, which she does not agree to, because she is a woman and she alone bears all the consequences of failure. Therefore, since you do not recognize other methods and relies only on natural resources – the spouse should exercise periodic restraint, in the name of the good lady. It really hasn't hurt anyone yet. Otherwise, giving up sexual intercourse does not mean giving up intercourse altogether. After all, there are many other ways to relieve sexual tension. They will be it, of course, only half measures, but probably better than nothing. If the husband still did not want to "limit", please have a serious conversation with him and tell him straight: "If I get pregnant, I will not agree to its removal ".