“A year ago, my husband's cousin fell seriously ill. The husband visited him in the hospital every day. Later my husband started calling his cousin (i odwrotates). I noticed, that they are both more and more fascinated with each other. I found a pile of love letters in his belongings, and it was all clear. Since then, my husband has been absent from home for days, worse, I don't want to change anything in my life. I feel completely helpless.”
Your husband turned to another woman. Why? Maybe something was missing in his relationship? Maybe "the latter" gave him something, what he did not find at home? I encourage you to have a serious conversation with your husband – try to think about it together. And no matter what, give your husband time – limited – at the end of that romance, tell him. that if he did later, he would live a double life, You will be forced to make a new life for yourself. And do so, if things worked out, unfortunately, not your way.